BGR

Chat with some colleagues yeaterday. Topics moved from work to kids nowadays to their bfs. They are in their 20s and unmarried. Well... one getting married soon. 2 of them kept saying that their bfs dun spend enough time with them. So I said that once they get married, they will enjoy their alone time.

I dun understand my OH's need for spending time with his friends after finishing his time with his mom but so doesn't he. But I believe that people need to have separate lives sometimes in order to stay out of each other's throat all the time. Why do you think people have kids? To alleviate pressure off each other. Attention is divided so that they dun kill each other. Plus, absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Men are weird creatures, they can ignore you one whole day, and when they come home, they become like a lovesick puppy, seeking your full attention. Forget about the time that they are out for 12 hours. Anyway, I watched Structly Dr Drew and there was research findings that men and women are biologically different right from birth. Our brains think differently. We have different strengths and weaknesses but we somehow compliment each other. Like puzzle pieces. No one can conform into the same mould but we have to learn to be tolerable and understanding and of course, patience.

Everyday is a learning process. I'm just happy I have my kitties to keep me sane.

Peace!